Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Relationship Tips For Women - Don't Make These Mistakes With the Men You Date

Quite often, the complaints that women will have about relationships and the men that they meet or date are pretty common. It seems that women often share the same mistakes when it comes to men and as a result, a lot of women come to the conclusion that there just are not enough good, quality men out there that they can choose from. Of course, this is not the whole truth, but it's easy to see why you might feel this way.

Before you declare that you are ready to give up on men, there are some really common mistakes that women make with men that you want to be aware of. Make these mistakes and you WILL attract the wrong kinds of men. Stay away from these mistakes, and you will be that much closer to finding the man of your dreams.

So, what are some of these common mistakes with men that women often make?

1. Not knowing what you REALLY want.

More than a few times In have heard women make a whole list of complaints about the men that they attract and the things that they don't want in a relationship, and I don't hear a lot of the things that they DO want to experience in relationships. One thing you can be sure of. If you don't know what you really want in a relationship, then you are going to keep attracting the things that you DON'T want.

2. You do whatever he wants to do.

When women are in the beginning of a relationship or they are just dating a man, then they often wind up doing all of the things that he wants to do and this sets a bad precedent. If you want to be able to go and do the things that YOU WANT, then you have to start in the beginning. Men are creatures of habit, and if the habit that you set is that you will go along with whatever he wants, then don't expect that he will suddenly change somewhere down the road.

3. You set your standards too low.

This is VERY common among women. You know that you want to attract the kind of guy that you can be happy with and that you find very attractive in all ways, yet you end up settling on a guy that does not meet these expectations. Well, if you do this, do you expect to be happy in the relationship after a while? I wouldn't think so. You have to raise your standards on what kinds of guys that you want to date and attract.

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