When February rolls around, you can almost count on seeing pink, red, fluff, and lots of fluffy stuffed animals everywhere. And of course, you will also see a LOT of teens and pre-teens cuddling and acting all lovey-dovey in public. It makes one wonder if there's space for older singles. The answer? Of course, there is!
Yes, some "mature" people think that Valentines is immature, and that only kids and teens should join in on the fun. Puppy love is so cute for Valentines. Elementary and high school kids use this season to give their puppy-love rushes their gifts, then giggle nervously and hide from them. Well, you get the picture, right?
But then again, who said that there's an age limit to feeling love? In essence, that's what Valentines is really for: to celebrate love. And older singles have as much rights to enjoy Valentines as the younger ones.
What's more, because mature singles are mature, then Valentines would have more feel to it. More mature people can see Valentines day beyond the worldly, superficial trappings that has covered its true meaning. Of course, I'm not saying that giving gifts or going out are superficial, just that mature singles and their partners usually have deeper feelings and more apt to show a deeper affection.
Mature dating isn't boring nor unexciting, let's make that all clear. Mature and older people know how to have fun also! It's just that with their experience in life, things would have more depth and feeling into what they are doing. Gifts usually have to be thought out, and not just brought from stores or boutiques at the last minute.
If you are having problems with what you're getting your partner in mature dating, then worry no more! You aren't the only one with that kind of problems, so don't worry about it much. Well first, find out what he is interested in, then find out a gift that is within his field of interest. If he is into fishing, then buy him some nice plungers. Next, surprise him! The gift need not be obvious. Alright, so say that you are going to give him plungers, you can buy a box of chocolates. Get rid of the candy, how you get rid of them doesn't matter. It's totally understandable if you can get rid of them by eating them though. Once you have the chocolates out of the way, put the plungers into the spaces where the candies are supposed to be. Wrap it in an extremely fluffy way, that he would cringe when he sees it. Opening it and seeing the contents would have him pleasantly surprised.
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