The adversities of distance between two people as well as the demands of a strenuous life lead many relationships to end abruptly. However, there are some brave hearts that challenge Time and emerge victorious in their relationships.
There are however certain circumstances, in which a long distance relationship works. They are:
It is possible to keep alive a long distance relationship when both the girl and boy are equally willing to do so.
· Both of them are ready to accept the hardships that their relationship has to face.
· Both will equally devote time to their relationship and understand each other.
· Both are willing to give each other individual freedom, respect the distance yet not complain to each other.
· They would not become excessively or emotionally dependant only because they are far away from each other and would not let suspicion creep into the relation.
· Be patient and dedicated. Avoiding the above stated circumstances will lead to the foundation of a healthy and strong long distance relationship. The three C's, Communication, Care and Confidence work perfectly for a long distance relationship. Communicate with each other, care and love each other and have confidence that both of you can pull through the relationship. Many of the couples face the brunt of a broken relationship because they don't know how to keep alive a long distance relationship. For them, here are some guidelines to follow:
· Ring each other up, talk to make him/her feel your existence
· Share your problems, lend an ear to each other's problems to show and make him/her feel that you are still the same and care for his/her problems.
· If calling sounds expensive, mail each other on a regular basis.
· Keep yourselves updated about the current affairs in your life so that none of you feel left out. As partners, you have the right to know even if you are away.
· Register yourselves on social networking sites, be part of the various applications there. In this way, both of you would be able to do things together.
· Continue sharing a hobby for say photography or a passion like seeing movies and listening to songs. For example both of you can choose to see a movie online at the same time and discuss about it later.
· Live chat with each other for generous hours. Get a webcam or microphone if you do not have one. In this way you would be able to talk and see each other.
· Keep on making and sharing your future plans. In this way both of you will feel a sense of security.
· Don't be over possessive about your partner from being away. At the same time, try to keep negative thoughts as jealousy and mistrust away from your mind.
· If opportunity favors, pay him/her a quick visit.
· Send each other plenty of e-cards and gifts and flowers on birthdays and special days.
· Adopt a hobby or passion of your partner so that next time both of you can share it. Your caring gesture will surely touch his/her heart.
· Share photo albums with your special moments, visits and holiday pictures. This would give him/her of the feel of being with you at that time.
Always believe in yourself and your loved one. Love is an emotion related to the heart so it is better to keep the complexities thoughts of your mind away from it. It is up to the individuals to keep their relationship alive. Distance is not the culprit in a relationship. You can be away even if you are close but if your hearts meet at a juncture, then even time and distance bows before them. Use the distance to your advantage to make the bond stronger between you two. That is the real magic and power of love!!
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