Ok Look I have read some articles the last few weeks and they have been about how to find the right girl and find the one you love bla bla bla! I start reading the articles and they say to be nice and loving and to show them you care. I got confused if they were talking about how to train your dog or finding a love interest. But the best part about these articles were the comments, they were hilarious. So for all the guys that left the comments you are the reason I wrote this article.
First things first, if you have no confidence in yourself I don't care what you do, there is no girl at the end of the rainbow. Just pause reading this article for a second, do some pushups then resume reading. You get my point, you have to have confidence you have to have swagger, you have to have it. Whats it? It's confidence!!
When I was 16 I weighed 214 pounds and I am 5,11 I was the nice guy had a great personality but you know what I never had the hot chick. So I decided to turn it around and when I was 18 I weighed 161 pounds. So some can say I lived to lives one fat and one in shape. When I first lost the weight I was still using my nice guy approach, and guess what, it didn't work. It wasn't until I became someone that you wanted to talk to, not me trying to talk to you. That things started to come togethor. You have to become that person.
When you meet a girl for the first time DO NOT ask her for her number, chances are you will see her again. If she is hot and you guys hit it off her ego will be going nuts, "why didn't he ask me for her number", etc... You understand? Next time you see her just say hi and make sure to talk to other girls if they are around. Another thing you need to know: Women are jealous of others and the hotter they get the more jealous they are, you don't believe me? Try this trick, identify a group of girls, see who looks like the hottest one, and hit on her friend, I would be shocked if the hottest one either makes the girls leave or slips you her number somehow!! I have done it many times my friends, they can't believe you didn't talk to them first, and the funny thing is the girl you talked to first is so happy that she one upped her "hot" friend. So you may have struck gold twice.
Now say you see the girl again do not ask her for her number again, Even though I do love women and I think they are the ultimate prize. To get that prize you have to trick them to think you are one who they want. No one wants someone or something they can get, when your dad told you not to smoke what happened? You wanted to cause you couldn't, same rule applies if a girl plays hard to get you play harder, but there is a delicate balance, and it's not being all lovey dovey, or telling her you like her. It's about keeping her guessing keep her on her feet, I bet you every guy hits on her all the time they get annoyed, it's like little puppy's always bothering her, but here you come the Big Dog!!!!!Buy her a drink, talk to her for a few minutes bounce around then come back. Let her know that there a lot of cats in this place and you are the Big Dog on the hunt. It's up to her to make the move, the more you see her and you don't ask her out and don't ask for her number the more mysterious you become, then BAM.
When is it enough? It's hard to say I would say around the 5th or 6th time maybe the 4th you can arrange some kind of date. The best kind is when you just say "Let's have dinner tommorow at 7:00 I'll meet you at Morton's" No number no picking her up none of that stuff, but that's a little risky you got a great chance she shows up, and if she doesn't. Being alone in a bar if you have the confidence is one of the best ways to get women you can think of. But the Keyword that comes up again is??? Confidence,
I can write on this topic all day long but I won't. I will see the reactions then maybe I will continue. Look this advice isn't coming from Doctor Phil, it's coming from me I have had more experience then Doc Phil believe me, no way to prove it don't really care to I just want to help my fellow men become who they should be.
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