Four Flirting Mistakes All Men Want To Avoid

Let me ask you a question...

Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?

Do you know the reason for this occurrence?

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

So why is flirting so important?

The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?

You guessed it - A FRIEND!

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

And the secret is - flirting isn't really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn't work is when it's done WRONG.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

This is called "mixed signals."

Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.

MISTAKE #2: They Are Not Obvious Enough!

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?

Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

So for instance, if you're at a bar, and the girl you're with orders a drink and then turns to you and asks if you'd like something, you could jokingly say - "You're not trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me, are you?" (Of course, this is said with a wink and a nod.)

This communicates your interest, it's insinuating sex, but you're not coming outright and saying it. It's implied, and it's fun, and its light hearted.

Another example may be, when a woman makes a sexy remark, you say to her, Stop trying to tempt me, you vixen, you know I never kiss a woman on the first date.

Do you understand how all this works?

Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.

While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction.

Now the real fun begins.