Sexual Tension With Women - Should You Provoke Sexual Tension With Her?
Copyright © 2010 C Tyler

Your average guy is usually pretty shy when it comes to talking sex with a woman that he doesn't know very well. That's pretty common place and average. Yet, you don't really have to talk sexual to a woman in order to create sexual tension with her. Unfortunately, most guys carry this shyness about provoking sexual tension with a woman too far and they never get past the point where all she sees is the guy is a friend and nothing more.

Point blank, if you want to get some real action, if you want to have more than just a woman as a friend, then you better be able to provoke a little sexual tension with her now and again. Otherwise, you will end up getting caught in the drift of being nothing more than just a friend to her. And you DON'T want that to happen at all!

How should you go about creating sexual tension with her?

1. You have to be able to cross the "line" and use sexual innuendos now and again.

Of course, if you over do them, if you use them too much and too often, then they will lose their effect on her. However, they work wonders to steer the conversation in the direction that you want and start to get her mind to associate you and YOUR face with sex. Not a bad spot to be in, I'm sure you would agree.

2. You have to be able to physically flirt with her.

You don't want to be so afraid as to not offend a woman that you are unable to get a little physical with her. Even doing little things like taking her hand or lightly putting your hand on her knee can help you to transition things with her so that they start to get a little more physical. You don't want to just talk with her and expect that after "talking", she is going to want to get into bed with you.

3. You BETTER be able to make her FEEL sexual.

A woman will respond to what she feels when she is worth you more than anything else that you can do. If you don't make her feel sexual when she is with you, then don't expect to get intimate with her. Guys that try to suppress that sexual feeling with a woman, well, they usually end up frustrated to say the least.