Sunday, February 21, 2010

Making your Life Better and More Abundant

Is personal change necessary to achieve all your goals? Why do most of us have to work hard to accept all the abundance there is while others just flow with it and accept it all. They know it is there for them. Many of us came from worlds where we believe "you must struggle" and "life is hard". The personal growth and self-improvement comes in when we want to change and get all there is to life. When we want to live a happier, freer life without all the sorrow and hard work. I know that getting there is hard work but work can be enjoyable instead of something that makes us miserable. So this involves work we need to do to change our thinking. Get rid of the old baggage. Get your baggage down to a handbag size! Doesn't that sound more enjoyable?

I am a therapist and am amazed at the people who do the same thing all the time but expect a different result. For example, someone who complains about their friend all the time, but the "someone" never does anything to change it, they only complain. Well, nothing will change at that rate, will it. So, how badly does she want to change?

But using this analogy, we can say we want our life to be better, we can say we want to do all these fun, exciting things, but unless we are really willing to take some risks, change our behaviors, and break old habits, things will not change.

What does abundance, affiliate marketing, the internet, seo, making money online, all have to do with this information? Well, it has been my path. I have sought more money. I had some things fall apart in my life. I have a lot of determination. I have achieved my belief in abundance and it being available for all. I have sought a great deal of information and ideas to see what will work best for me, and that continues to grow. Now, I'm one of those people who has to keep my day job while I do another job - many of us do. But I also have waded through a lot of junk out there to find the gold - what helps the most, what works, what is clear - not "I still don't know how!" I hate that, don't you? I still struggle with technical issues, but I do outsource.

Because of my journey and my skills and intellect, I have decided to put up a website that will help others find some of these solutions much easier. The world of the internet changes continuously and quickly. What are your financial goals? When you think of abundance, what comes to mind. Is making some honest, fun money doing what you love enough? Need to pay off those bills? Wouldn't $300-$500./month be great. We don't have to be in the millionaires category. I'm not sure I aspire to that, because it would consume my life and I don't want that. I like to have fun. Abundance for me is more about simplicity and really means having financial freedom, not more stuff. People who achieve wealth often get in over their heads as they do not feel they deserve it and abuse the privilege. They get too greedy and things get out of hand. A simpler life with freedom has always been my goal. Freedom to travel and do as I want without financial constraints has always been my goal, including money in the bank. Ease of living. So my advice is to look at your goals and consider what it would be like if you had all the things you are wishing for and decide what it is you really need to be happy. Perhaps happiness to you means something different than financial freedom?

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